We all want to know the answer to the question. Are soulmates real? And how do we tell if a person is our soul mate?
But, before we get into an argument, we should know what exactly a soulmate is? Well, according to New Oxford American, a soul mate is “a person that is ideally suited to another as a close friend or romantic partner.” However, this sounds pretty simple. A soulmate is something a little more complicated than that.
Soul mates are not just someone that suits us, but they are also associated with having a deeper connection to another. A relationship which cannot be replaced. It is that person, the one that clicks, you have heard about “the click”. Well, that is a soulmate.
So what’s is the big debate?
This is a pretty big debate. According to some scientists, it is impossible, with the help of mathematical equations, to have a soulmate. Additionally, other scientists argue that you should not even think about soulmates since you then eliminate other eligible partners, as you are looking for “the one.” They have a valid point.
On the other hand, some people believe soul mates are probable, but not in the way that we think of them. We do not need an immediate click with someone rather soul mates result from a deep love which develops over time.
But, who is right? No one knows this. However, if you wonder whether your partner is your “soul mate,” some good signs will show you that you and your partner are a perfect match:
1. You speak without words.
Okay, we know that this sounds a little New Age, a little hippy, but it is true. You don’t have to talk constantly like you would with people that you have just met. You should share that comfortable silence without any awkward feelings. When you are talking, you finish each other’s sentences without even blinking. You also connect on a mental level, unlike others.
2. You feel it.
Deep down in your gut, you feel it when you know that someone is for you. For example, when you go on a date with someone, you know within five minutes if that person is for you or not. Of course, sometimes you may be surprised. However, usually, you are right. It is not explainable, the feeling, but you just know that this person is, or is not for you.
3. You two made chemistry.
The chemistry that you have for each other is intense. It is sure that you have felt things for other people, but this is on a whole different level. Even though your sexual chemistry is high, it is more than just having sex, but there is passion, as well as love with each touch.
4. There is a challenge.
You challenge each other, and you also positively push each other. There is a sense of teamwork which is shared between you two, and neither feels as though they are forgotten. Both of you want to evolve and grow with each other, supporting what you both do. This is not only being soul mates, but this is also a partnership.
5. It just flows.
You are not worried at all about saying something offensive to them, as well as doing something which would make you look weird. You genuinely do not care. You also feel free to say what you mean and want, and it is almost like you have known each other for years.
6. You are both flawed, and you know that.
Yes, you are flawed, they are also flawed, and both of you know that. This is not about finding a person that is in a perfect package, smiling all the time, as well as doing everything exactly right. That is not what a soul mate is, that is a doll.
You both see the flaws of each other, but accept them, as well as embrace them in the relationship. A soulmate is about having the perfect relationship, and it is also about going through the ups and downs together.
7. They make you feel calm.
They make you feel calm, and you also make them feel calm. When you are around them, you should not feel stressed out, as that is not a partnership. If you are on pins and needles all the time you are around them, that is not a soulmate.
8. Your soul mate may not end up in a romantic form.
You have maybe found your soulmate, but, there is not any sexual chemistry between you. Of course that you are mentally, as well as emotionally connected and you may have even tried to have an intimate relationship with this person, but it may not work out. However, this does not mean that you didn’t found your soul mate. You found it, but the romantic aspect is just not there.
9. It may not be an immediate falling in love.
You probably know some people that married friends that they have known for ten or more years. One day, they may just look at each other and realize that their soulmate was in front of them the whole time. You may be thinking that your soulmate is a person that you will meet at some party or library, but really, it could even be your neighbor across the hall or your best friend too.
So, do you think that soulmates are real? Think about your relationship and try to see whether you match up with these 9 signs.
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